Children (almost) destroyed my marriage!
message for first time parents
Why do children change everything? My marriage was smooth sailing until the birth of our first child. Parenthood isn’t just a change—it’s a transformation that challenges your patience, priorities, and relationships.
Trying out moving some of this content to the Youtube (so I need the likes and subs pretty please)! In this video, I reflect on how becoming a father tested me emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, shifting my identity and priorities in ways I never expected. It pushed me to unearth new layers of myself while navigating the challenges of balancing fatherhood and marriage. Parenting is a crash course in survival—an unrelenting journey of love, responsibility, and growth. But what happens when being a father and a husband feels like a tug-of-war?
Working away on the new book (in editing mode, probably the seventh draft, but technically the second). Pre-order.
If you don’t have a copy, what are you waiting for? The Book You Wish You Had Read Before Marriage. This week, I received a reviewthat warmed by heart!
Get here ‘The Book You Wish You Had Read Before Marriage.
Side note: I will be “retiring” my current book not long after the release of the new one. While it will still be available as an audiobook and digital copy, the hardback editions will only be available to those who purchased them while they were on sale.
As I said last time, in many ways, it feels like retiring a jersey. If you own a copy, feel free to display it proudly—because it’s a piece of a journey that won’t be replicated.
Catch me in London:
