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Being aware of how to criticize your partner is a skill that takes years to master.

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Aug 10, 2021
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Being aware of how to criticize your partner is a skill that takes years to master.

My wife has taught me that you gain more when you criticize the situation or the circumstance, but not the person. Do not use one dispute as an excuse to bring up a long list of things they have done to hurt you — some you already claimed to have forgiven them for — in th…

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