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I think this piece perfectly put into words what many people have not been able to quite put their finger on! I also think this piece provided very useful and sound guidance on how life partnership looks - continued commitment to growth and not only being there to lean on a partner in difficult times but to also be prepared to be leant on in difficult seasons too ✨. Thank you for this, one of my favourite reads to date.

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Thank you for this tread! I resonate with this lady and what you have shared herewith this tread. Personally, though I was never married (though he proposed X3 times) , the partner I had I knew from early on we were never to be married, I also knew I was going to have his children. There was something missing greater than the love he gave. Intellectual, we were different, he was way better in social IQ than I am, we were different in value for independence or personal time and or growth. Whereas it took ultimatums; him d/w or compare/compete with his friends, and lack of transparency, integrity, accountability, courtesy inevitably lead to the demise of a 13 year old relationship.

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