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To my 79 year old husband...
A letter I wrote to the man I hope I’m still choosing 40 years from now.
19 hrs ago • Office Hours
The art of being useless to men
Being needed is not the same as being wanted.
Sep 6 • Office Hours

August 2026

I Have Everything I Asked For
On loving your life and needing to step outside it for an hour.
Aug 30 • Office Hours
What happens when you marry the wrong person?
Maybe wanting to be a mother isn't the same thing as wanting to build a family...
Aug 23 • Office Hours
Why did I get married?
I'm christian, my husband's muslim.
Aug 16 • Office Hours
Men and The art of 'No Wahala'
For the past five years I’ve harboured a secret from my wife.
Aug 14 • Solomon
10 Things you shouldn't do for a man!
I broke rule two for my husband
Aug 9 • Office Hours
Love, lies and the Algorithm
The Mediafication of Relationships
Aug 5 • Solomon
I thought every marriage had this.....
On the man who never stopped asking me questions
Aug 2 • Office Hours

July 2026

My wife is my best friend. That's the problem.
Why one person was never meant to be everyone.
Jul 29 • Solomon
Marry Rich. I Didn't.
Love is the icing, not the cake as husband once quoted in a poem.
Jul 26 • Office Hours
My children are not the most important people in my marriage
One day they'll leave. I hope we still know each other when they do.
Jul 19 • Office Hours
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